(Written Tuesday, December 11, 2007)
If Sheila has decided she is no longer attracted to me, what can be done about this? Can a marriage survive in this state? Over time, should we find a way to recapture some general warmth towards each other, might this somehow take care of itself? I'm an attractive guy, just as she is a stunning beauty. Beneath our skin we're both very attractive, charismatic individuals as well. The chemistry is definitely lacking right now, from her end. It works in mysterious ways, but surely there are techniques that can help us find each other again.
After 16 years, my wife and I have decided to absolve our marital commitments. Right now it's a temporary decision; whether this will lead to divorce or reconciliation remains to be seen. This blog is a real-time account of my thoughts and feelings as I go through this roller coaster. It's an honest accounting, with the sole exception that my wife's name is not really Sheila.
Blog Archive
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2007
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December
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- Empowerment of a Guiding Principle
- Searching for the Soul of my Wife
- Stress
- Decoupling
- Investing in a Belief
- Going to Parties
- A Way Forward: Focus on the Cause and not the Symptom
- Reflections on my Contributions to our Marriage
- Carrying a Snuffed Out Torch
- Impact on Future Generations
- Blindsided
- Breaking the Ice
- Attraction
- Our Marriage is NOT the Problem
- Meditation
- Marriage is like a Democracy
- Marriage is a Platform
- Mourning the Loss of the Daughter We Never Had
- Occasionally, The Pot Boileth Over
- Commitment
- Background on our situation
- A Bit More on All This
- Absolution
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December
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About Me
- Epicurist
- Father of three wonderful boys (7, 11, and 14), but sadly, facing an uncertain future with my wife.
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